Many women do not go into marriages simply to cheat on their husbands. That is not the reason why they got married in the first place. Rather, many women want what every man wants and that is a happy home. However, in order to fully understand the reasons why women cheat on their husbands we should look to the stages that lead to this act. Like many things in life there are clues and warning signs that point to a dissatisfaction that many women experience in life in general.
The First Stage
This stage is when women feel bored and that there is something missing in their lives. Perhaps this was because they did not have children at the time and that they could travel and see things that now they feel trapped and burdened by the weight of living day to day. The excitement of life has left them and now they are seeking new and other ways to get more excitement in her life.
Sex has become just another chore to get through and is part of her duties as a wife. Many feel as though they are just a tool for their husbands enjoyment. This fear and disinterest in sex can cause much anxiety in many women as they feel as though their husbands will cheat on them in order to get some satisfaction.
The Second Stage
This is the stage when an encounter with someone new stimulates and excites many women. It is this excitement and stimulation that causes many women to feel happy again in their marriages. At least temporarily. Later on the sense of guilt and the burden of having to lie to their husbands becomes too much. Many women take this guilt out on their husbands by making them feel unwanted and unworthy of their affection. This is a way to get their husbands to cheat on them and not to feel so guilty in the relationship.
The Third Stage
The third stage is when the women feel that they should continue having their affairs and perhaps consider divorce. The reason for this is caused by a chemically induced feeling of elation that a new relationship is starting in their lives. This confusion causes many women to believe that they have met their true soul mate. Many believe that if they are given space from their husbands that all will seem clear again and that their lives will get back on track the way it was before the affair.
The Final Stage
This is when the final decision is made whether or not to divorce a husband. The sense of relief from a wife can be great at this stage as she feels that this whole mess will be over soon.
Later on we then see that those that have gone through a divorce feel a sense of guilt and remorse for having put their relatives through that whole mess. Interestingly enough many women confess to continue to having the same feelings about their new husband and relationship as they did in the previous one. It is though nothing changed and that they are going through another bad stage in their lives that is brought upon from the weight of marriage.
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